chiropractors are completely unregulated and pseudoscience. a massage therapist has more licensing and training. in fact, there are 1000's of lawsuits, including CHILDREN who have been paralyzed and hurt long term from bad chiropractors.

go to an actual massage therapist and a physical therapist. with actual degrees and training. fuck chiro. scum bags.

oh she does! or you wouldn’t be talking about her right now. she’s on your mind an in your heart forever 😊

yes i emailed them to myself as audio files!!! so at least there’s two copies or everything. going to download on my computer and a USB soon. thanks for the recommendation, fren

i bet. did you break down and cry or was it more a happy comforting moment?

uhg how tragic. “oh it’s such a small procedure, everything will be fine” and then life hits ya straight in the heart. i’m sorry about your wife, the fact you talk about her 15 years later speaks volumes about y’all’s marriage ❤️ 😭

that’s fine. i’m glad your dad is alive. i’m sure you will miss his voice one day. glad i will always have my moms voice ❤️

the older generation. my mom, who i loved dearly. the wonderful women who raised me and gave me the perspective i have on life.

i’m sorry for your loss, and hopefully this post can help some others out. just don’t beat yourself up over it ok?

thank you, it’s a hard experience nobody can prepare for. thinking of you and your family in this hard time 😞

i love this ❤️ mom daughter bond is so special.

aw this is a thought i have a lot too. my mom not seeing my graduate, marry, possibly have children.

sounds like you and your nephew have a special connection ❤️ may your mom rest in peace

wow this is really sweet. technology is craaazy. you still have a piece of your dad in your own way!

weird flex but ok

thank you for that advice. it sounds like that person really left a mark on your life in a beautiful way. i can feel it in what you wrote.

so many people have shared the same type of story about phones losing precious items, and thankfully there are ways to save voicemails on computers or USBs now.

me too!! it’s easy to focus on the negative parts of technology, but they can provide us with sweet moments like that. RIP to your dad ❤️

i can accept death while having a voice mail of my mom singing happy birthday downloaded on my computer. don’t you dare tell me i can’t.

sorry but you’re trying to dictate how i deal with my feelings without any context and it’s gross. let me do what i want, and you can have your opinion but don’t double down when i tell you no. 👋

especially with the ease of taking videos now, im def doing this with my future husband and children. ill even include any pets now. i’m really starting to understand how priceless memories are.

i’m sorry to hear that. i’m actually adopted so i came from a mother who chose drugs. i know im also very lucky and privileged to have an experience like this with my adoptive mom. i purposely put “loved one” in the title because love is not always blood.

thanks for sharing though, all perspectives are valid and you sound like a big ole heckin sweet heart ❤️

aw that’s so special. uhg i’m glad you got to keep that slice of a memory ❤️

this is exactly how i was. “ohhh she can wait, i’ll call back”..one of the voice mails is her warning me about a possible thunder storm. today it stormed and stormed, i wish i had a motherly warning for it 😢

eh there’s no way right to grieve. telling someone they need to let go isn’t what’s best for every single person. i can hold on to what’s important to me for as long as i’d like. sorry for your loss.

take your time, there’s no proper way to grieve. some find comfort, and some feel pain when hearing their voice again. do what you need to

don’t worry, it sounds like you valued that person a lot. you had no idea, it was by sheer chance. i’m sorry for your loss 😞

yeah i have so many regrets, like asking my mom about all her artwork, our family heirlooms, etc. this weekend i’m having a “spa” day with my mom where i being a face mask and nail polish. if she’s up to it i’m going to make a lil video of her, even if it’s nonsensical. as long as she’s smiling and not in pain. thank you for commenting ❤️

this is so true. perspectives change constantly, weather it’s for the better or worse. sounds like you focus on the better of things, and i love that for you.