_lmmk_

_lmmk_ t1_iyf7nvg wrote

OP, your baggage related to previous partners cheating on you is NOT your fiancé’s baggage to pick up and carry.

I suggest some therapy so you can stop using being cheated on in the past as a reason to act immature and petty in the present.

It will only become more and more annoying as you get older and still behave this way.

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_lmmk_ t1_ixq609c wrote

You need an entirely different transpo method. There is no “sharing a car” with your ex fiancé, who has already changed her mind three times about the “deal” she will give you.

Take out a car loan and move to a cheaper apartment.

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_lmmk_ t1_itwxg0w wrote

Yeah. So last year I tore my ACL and bought a cool therapy medical device. The device itself is something I can pay for with my HSA, but it was like $250 cheaper to get it on Amazon than through Kaiser. I tried using my HSA card but it wouldn’t go through on Amazon, so I paid out of pocket.

My extra paperwork was super easy - I just downloaded the Amazon receipt, uploaded it to my HSA website, and like 2 months later I was reimbursed out of the HSA for my out of pocket cost.

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_lmmk_ t1_itn13wg wrote

I usually wear a stylish outfit that includes a dress. And I force my man into a sport coat. It’s a great excuse to see him spiffied up!

ETA: this is not partner abuse, I promise

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