Wow, thank you for really explaining this to me. I agree with what you're saying. I will definitely give this guy a chance because I do feel like we're in the same lifestage, and so far he has treated me like an equal. This was really helpful.

Thanks for the answer. I think I may be overly freaked out about age gaps because my grandfather and his wife were 30 years apart... it's a huge scandalous and family taboo 🥲

Hah, that's basically what my parents said. Thanks for the answer.