Consider that you have a preference for men who like to date women who are barely legal adults and not fully biological adults. That should worry you.

There’s nothing wrong with what you’re saying here as far as your own perspective goes. But what you’re ignoring is that a middle aged man should not be comfortable with a 20 year old as a partner. When you’re standing on the 45 year old side of it, 20 looks and feels extremely young and inappropriate. Which means you’re dating someone who is totally comfortable with inappropriate situations. Want more proof? Look at what he’s doing with his ex.

You don’t need us to tell you exactly how bad this man’s judgement is. Your last paragraph shows that you know. This isn’t someone with whom you can get into any financial or legal entanglement. If they’re middle aged and exhibiting this level of horrible judgement then you know there’s little to no chance that he’s going to grow or change. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t shackle yourself to this dead weight.

Is anybody else getting tired of reading headline after headline about how cannabis does aaaaaall the things like it’s some magical freaking cure-all? No? Just me?