That is always so hard and I totally get wanting a neutral opinion on it. But of all the perfectness, if you cannot trust your partner 100% there’s always going to be that seed of doubt/suspicion that is going to erode any good foundation that has been set.

Everyone is different and has different priorities, but if I were in another relationship and anything happened that questioned if I could trust my partner or not it’s game over.

Because you can find someone just as perfect that you can trust.

Hell no, not worth it. Honestly people joke abt Reddit saying break up over nothing but like. Y’all haven’t been together that long, you aren’t married, and you don’t have kids. Trustworthiness CAN be developed, but that’s the key word there. Do you want to find out after a decade plus a couple kids that he hasn’t actually become trust worthy?

You are young and there are good partners out there that don’t do this.

Nothing - she’s engaged. Move on.

Men are not all sex crazed idiots like society makes them out to be. Men can be asexual and be afraid of intimacy. However, 5 years with no intimacy is odd if they do not claim to be asexual. If that is a requirement of your relationship with them (which is perfectly fine) you need to seriously discuss this before getting married. Something is up - even if it is just fear of intimacy. Go to science based therapy together if you want to continue the relationship. Best of luck!