I mean, it's only two pairs, right? Just bend them to make sure that it's hard to separate the two halves. I don't know if you wear silver or gold, but I'm sure there are reasonable pairs on Etay/Amazon.

Have you tried huggie earrings?

My first holes are gauged because I kept losing little earrings and just decided to go with the flow and then realised I liked it For a while I just used huggie earrings for the other lobe piercings. Now I have black diamonds with regular backs in my 3rd+ holes each side, although I do pinch the backs so they don't come off easily, and a pair of leverbacks in my 2nd holes.

My cartiledge piercings are all "piercer" earrings, that is, not simple posts.

I wish you luck! I adore my piercings and get distressed when I lose one.

Oh boo. I have a ton of holes and gauges and sporadically lose earrings, but only like maybe one a year.

have your holes stretched by any chance and they're coming out from the back?

Oh you said leverbacks too. Maybe you're losing them when you're sleeping? I'd try a satin pillowcase maybe?