To add: I don’t blow her phone up at all, I typically will message her around lunch wishing her a good day and see how things are going. I completely understand when she’s working the minimal communication. The problem is when we are together she will tell me she doesnt reply because she’s never around her phone or she’s busy doing whatever, but when we together she’s on it constantly. That’s where my issue lies.

The issues relate back to the financial. I don’t spend much on myself, if any. The money I have either goes to my daughter or my wife. Since not making as much as I was, it seemed to kind of make her resent me. I put a budget together to ensure we have enough to put food on the table. The money issues is the biggest in our relationship for sure. We are in individual counseling and when I bring up marriage counseling it somehow turns into an argument.

Sorry I should of put in context that she had accused me of cheating early in our relationship and I had absolutely nothing to hide, gave her my phone and said she could look at whatever she wanted. We stay together 3-4 nights a week depending on her work schedule, but there are times where I don’t stay there due to either working late or having to be at work early. But our house should be done by early December at the latest.