Move out and get your own place. Problem solved.

I personally would tell his GF and not talk to him. He's trying to justify his actions, and his best friend is a h*. There is only one person who is going to get hurt, and that's his girlfriend. NEITHER ONE OF THEM CARE about what they are doing. Do the right thing and tell his girlfriend. Or take her out for a girls night and let her catch him with his bimbo.

Grab his attention and tell him that you want to separate from him and that you are thinking about ending this marriage. If he doesn't talk to you, then he IMO has emotionally checked out. Pack up some stuff and tell him that you will be back for the rest and walk out. Or you put your hands on the side of his face and tell him that you are leaving him, make him HEAR you.

Set him free and break everything off and walk away. Sorry, but I personally think that he's been experimenting already, and I would get tested for STDs. Tell him that you don't want to be married to a bi sexual person and that he needs to go figure himself out. Good luck

She wouldn't be my fiancee or my GF after I read those messages, IMO. She was cheating

He's covering his tracks. I personally think he sent them because he wanted to. Good luck

Just reading this, I don't trust your BF. I also don't believe him, and I personally would tell him that HE needs to move out.

Walk away and don't look back

Go to college and stop being his play toy! YOU have a right to go and do anything you want and he doesn't have the right to stop you. Wake up and leave him and go live your life, he is a grown ass man with a child and a child GF .

Sge needs therapy and you need to tell his wife. Your friend doesn't give a rats ass about his wife or herself. Tell the wife and wake your friend up!

She doesn't CARE about how the joke made you feel, she care that you are upset, she doesn't care that the joke hurt you, she doesn't care that you want an apology! When people say things that hurt other people and use the excuse that it was a joke and they don't sincerely apologize it wasn't a joke! I personally with the way she's acting and her attitude, I would tell her that this relationship is a joke and I would break things off with her and leave and I would also tell her that the jokes on her.

BOTH needs need to be met, find a happy solution for the BOTH of you ,if that doesn't work get MC, and if that doesn't work then you two are better off single.

She's engaged and playing you and you also have no way of knowing if her relationship is bad, so stop believing everything she says! Stay away from her and back off and have some respect for yourself, you sound like her little high school crush!

Leave completely, he doesn't deserve you and you sure as hell don't deserve him! I would also make sure that he can't come back and I would block, delete and ghost him. You deserve so much better and you need to be happy and single without any burdens of him. Good luck to you

After all this time and the things he's said enough is enough! Where is your self respect and dignity? Send them both a break up text and move on with your life. He doesn't truly love you and is only with you until she wakes up. I personally would have left him when he told you both that he and her were a perfect match to. He wants her, he will screw her if she's willing and he's already told you, he doesn't allow you to be friends with her. What more do you need to know? He's a liar and manipulator and is controlling you and the situation until he gets what he wants. Leave the relationship with him and go live your life, he ISN'T GOING TO CHANGE, it's been 8 years of the same old crap and 8 years of you being second choice stop being a carnival prize! Leave them both behind

End it, because trust is broken and you will never know what they did and her excuse as to why is pathetic! You also don't need to go to couples counseling when you did no wrong. She IMO is trying to manipulate you into going to counseling because you don't trust her and is trying to cover up the cheating.

She wants sex, but not from you. There is ABSOLUTELY no reason for her to lie and gaslight you, none . IMO, any woman who turns down sex to masterbate is wanting and fantasizing about someone else, sorry but that's my personal opinion and the same can be said about men. Call everything off and get your ring back, because she just showed you what that she's a liar and manipulator and she doesn't care! This says everything about what kind of person she is and she just proved that you can't trust her. Find someone who WANTS you who won't lie and manipulate and gaslight you.

He wouldn't be my BF anymore, I would set him free!!!

Typical response, it's not like he was going to tell you. You have just dodged a bullet and ridded yourself of more headaches and heartbreaks!! Feel good about yourself and I hope you find happiness in the future!!

Does he know yet, and what did he say? Also good for you and have a wonderful life and enjoy yourself!!

Weird and kinda creepy and no way would I do that!

You live there and she can't prohibit you from entering your house. Apartment manager or the police will get you into your house. If she won't let you in call the police and they will explain the law to her.

LMAO 🤣!! Go criticize someone else!!

Break up!!