Can you live somewhere with roommates?

Or can you look into transferring to another nursing program? There are plenty and I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard to transfer the credits

Point is, you know you can't keep this up for 3 years right?

Ofc you know that you have to get out of the relationship. The problem is the living situation. Do you have a job or any kind of money? Is there anyone you can stay with temporarily?

How long is the program? If it ends this May I'd tell you to just tough it out for now. If there are more semesters - you can't keep doing this. What kind of program is it? How long does it last? And do you work at all?

I’m sorry to tell you this but M&S, while terrible, are not the biggest issue. Your relationship is terrible already. You are young, but you should know that it is not normal to be afraid to bring up issues because you are afraid of your BF. That is emotional abuse.

Further, he doesn’t trust you for no reason and he keeps talking abt wanting to break up.

There is no relationship here worth fighting for. You are young, you will find someone who actually loves you and cares about you and trusts you and values you. I promise

Nah this guy sucks.

First of all - premature ejaculation can be annoying but it isn’t too hard to work around. You can always wait like 10 min and have sex again! Or ask him to jerk off a bit before sex.

But the biggest issue here isn’t that - it’s the way he reacted when he brought up legitimate issues. There’s nothing he can do about oral sex? That’s bullshit! Tell him exactly what feels good and ask him to do it. If you don’t know, google it! Plenty of websites with advice. If he can’t do that he’s selfish plain and simple.

And the solutions you propose he shoots down because he’s insecure. This is not someone you want to date! He is ignoring your needs and desires and he is very selfish! He cares more abt his fragile ego than making sure sex is good for you.

You can’t be in a sexual relationship and have a complex about sex that includes being unable to ever talk about sex. That is insane.

If he doesn’t change its time to move on. Your fears are so valid! You should get out there and explore! You shouldn’t necessarily marry the first person you have sex with!

So he’s shown you that he is a liar and he will continue to lie. How can you stay with someone you can’t trust?