blueavole

blueavole t1_je08217 wrote

This is very dependent on the employer. I’ve worked at places that will automatically trash any applications that “go around their system “ because they paid a lot of money for it and have to prove it’s value.

It also proves you can’t or won’t follow directions.

Call the HR department and ask first

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blueavole t1_iyezwcp wrote

She has been trying to reach out and talk to you, why are you rejecting her if you want to make this work?

Yes, the two of you have had a serious breakdown. Have you discussed therapy or counseling? You may need to go by yourself to work on some of your anxiety issues. Those can make it hard for you to connect. This is important for you no matter what your wife decides.

This can’t have been only 1 week of problems.

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