and i was 19 the day before yesterday. i love that he wanted to do something special but it was never expected or asked. i definitely agree i should have handled it better, but i just felt bad for the waitress, especially having worked as one myself

i don’t even care if he is cheap with me, i told him we didnt have to do anything for my birthday. all i cared about was that he left a standard tip, which i think is 20%

i definitely agree with you. it sucks cause once i realized it would turn into an argument it was too late. i tried to pin it to a different day but he wouldn’t

wow im glad u feel so entertained

I told him I wanted to pay the tip to make it 20 and he said then he wouldn’t feel like a man

I did offer to pay the 20% lol, I also told him the night before we didnt have to go anywhere fancy

I mean it was started by the tips and that was the main concern, so i think the tips is definitely the main problem here