You break up with him. Sometimes the solution to being a "bad girlfriend" isn't trying harder, it's admitting the mismatch and ending things. Life is hard enough.

There are millions if not billions of good people in the world. You don't have to stay in a relationship that isn't working for you because they are good. You stay because you are compatible and are fulfilled in the relationship and it's currently 0/2.

I do hope you are trolling otherwise this is one of the saddest things I've read on here in a while.

Chances are you are stuck paying child support for these kids if you were married at the time, but it wouldn't hurt to talk to a lawyer about your options.

And talk to a therapist, it's one thing if you had an open relationship but to be happy with someone that has so little regard for you and for birth control? How many more strangers' kids are you willing to raise?

Your damsel in distress wants to play the damsel 24/7. You can opt out of being the White Knight.

If you are looking for a partnership, she's repeatedly told you that that's not what's on offer. Stop waiting for the answer to change, what you see is what you get.

Kick her out and find someone who cares about you not just what you can provide for her.

That's creepy and manipulative. You dump him but don't block him. This kind of crazy escalates and you'll want to have something to report to the police for when you need a restraining order.

Because she doesn't want to talk to you?

Why would you text someone who flipped you off the last time you saw her. She probably thinks you are stalking her.

Leave her alone.

You don't have to lecture her but you also don't have to fund her. Just tell her you can't afford it. If she tries to explain your finances to you, ask her if she'd like you to return the favor.

It will probably save your mental health if you don't see her excesses daily.