Someone whose family line is indigenous to America. The Yupik people are native to Alaska, so OP’s lineage is entirely made up of people born in America unlike most Americans whose ancestors are from other countries.

What do you think it means when a woman calls a man who is not her father “daddy”?

> I valued the stability and mentorship my partners had from their life experience.

Not to "therapize," but you're basically trying to recreate the sense of emotional safety you didn't get in your childhood. This isn't at all uncommon for people who grow up with neglectful parents; it creates a void and something has to fill it.

I definitely think therapy is the way to go here. It sounds like these relationships haven't been too damaging so far, but every time you get involved with a much older man you're gambling on him not being the type to take advantage of this craving for stability and guidance to control you.

To clarify, did you agree that you would spend the evening together at her house?

Yes I did. From my comment defending him from someone calling him gross:

> He literally walked away after she said thank you.

> I hate street harassment to my very core, but a simple compliment with no expectation of anything further is not harassment or flirting.

If women always think you're creepy, you're the common denominator.

I defended the guy in the post, as I said. I know reading is hard.

I love men. I don't love creepy men like you, nor do most women. I defended the guy in the post in another comment. If women are creeped out by you every time you talk to them, that's a you thing.

Thanks, Socrates. I'll be sure to embroider that on a pillow. It's your business if you want to continue blaming women for the fact that they want nothing to do with you.

> so i get more mad and he hit my cheeks

As in, he slapped you? If so, that's a hard stop. Physical abuse is an immediate dealbreaker.

I am kind of astounded that someone can be so stubborn and so wrong at the same time. It's okay that you didn't understand my comment but it's embarrassing to double down on it.

I mean, I think you do know what to do, it's just a hard pill to swallow.

You can either discuss opening the relationship and getting your needs met ethically, or admit that you are never going to feel satisfied in this relationship and walk away. Cheating is never an acceptable solution.

Honey, please read my comment before getting offended. I explicitly said a lifetime of harassment BEGINNING at 13.

I literally told you. It's...like, RIGHT there in my comment.

I literally just told you. Who hurt you that you're a broken record when women tell you exactly why they don't allow you to harass them with impunity?

I would frame it as it being important that you both love the name you choose for your child. He had no objections to the name you chose, so it's not the same situation as this. I assume if you'd wanted to name your child Pigpen because you loved the Charlie Brown character, he'd have objected to that. Obviously Madoka is not a derogatory name, but it is a name you dislike and both parents should have veto power because it's not great for the child to be named something that has negative feelings attached for one parent.

Probably a large volume of men consistently harassing her over the course of a lifetime since she was like 13, which is around the age most women report first getting catcalled.

If men want to point the finger at someone, blame creepy men who ruin it for everyone else, not women who are just trying to go about their day.

He literally walked away after she said thank you.

I hate street harassment to my very core, but a simple compliment with no expectation of anything further is not harassment or flirting.