chromatic_evil
chromatic_evil t1_ja9ro6c wrote
Reply to comment by Randobon in Codependent Marriage (40m & 30f) by [deleted]
Yes! I am in individual therapy as well and my therapist is wonderful. Just can’t meet with them as often as I’d like and these thoughts have just been overwhelming to deal with lately.
chromatic_evil t1_ja9yyyj wrote
Reply to comment by Randobon in Codependent Marriage (40m & 30f) by [deleted]
Oh it’s been on my mind for a few months (even though we always had these problems I never really saw how bad it was until we had a kid). I am extremely non confrontational (to a fault) and have a history of minimizing my feelings/experiences, which is why I wanted to lay it out here to see if there was anything to what I was feeling. Not to mention the logistics of trying to figure out where I would go, custody, finances, having no idea how he would react if I did leave, etc etc