Absolutely you can say no! Girl, it is not your job to make men feel better or protect their feelings. What about what you want? Put yourself first. Never say yes to a date or anything else just because someone wants it and you don’t want to hurt their feelings. That’s not fair to you. As women were conditioned to cater to everyone’s needs above our own, especially mens. I’m here to tell you to stop doing this, and give you permission to put your needs and wants first.
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Reply to comment by YuutaIgarashi in I (M21) am stuck in a roulette of sort, I have a date with my crush (18M) for Valentine day and there's this person (19M) asking me out, what should I do? by [deleted]
Absolutely you can say no! Girl, it is not your job to make men feel better or protect their feelings. What about what you want? Put yourself first. Never say yes to a date or anything else just because someone wants it and you don’t want to hurt their feelings. That’s not fair to you. As women were conditioned to cater to everyone’s needs above our own, especially mens. I’m here to tell you to stop doing this, and give you permission to put your needs and wants first.