I deleted them off my phone when he told me he saw them. They were in the hidden folder because after I’d film them at that time I hid them cause I didn’t wanna think about them. 3 months of us dating was online, and i hadn’t thought about that content being on my phone and him possibly seeing it.

I genuinely didn’t keep them for self gratification. They were from a year ago so they were always in my hidden folder. We dated for one month in person, 3 months online, and this is the first time i’ve been with him since that one month IRL so it didn’t cross my mind that I had content I should delete in there because honestly I overlooked the fact that they were in there and that he could’ve stumbled across them .. I did think to delete all the photos and videos of my exes that were in my main photos folders. I just really didn’t think of the hidden folder.

also, it is highly uncommon in our relationship. he watched my password over my shoulder. I’ve never given him a reason to suspect I was doing anything and to the bottom of my heart I haven’t been engaged with anyone else or doing anything suspicious. It was so out of the blue. It made me feel like he went to my hidden folder for wank content for himself because I wasn’t giving him sex. he actually mentioned he “thought the hidden folder would have interesting pics of me” so… i’ve never gone through his phone, haven’t even asked for the password. the one time he did show me his camera roll he had a few photos of his ex but i didn’t mind. i trust him.. but he doesn’t feel the same i suppose.