Yes, yes you will be freaking happy when you can spend time with your husband without them staring at a screen. What you are asking for is in my eyes an easy and valid request.

Might I suggest marriage counseling? You and your husband seems to need that. At the end you need decide if things aren’t changing. Is this how you picture marriage to be like? Can you see yourself living like this for years and years to come?

I wish you all the best and I hope you will end up with the life you need and deserve! You got my support!

It is never your fault when you communicate what you are lacking in your marriage. My partner is a gamer and loves it. Has taken days off for WOW tournaments and releases. He always asks if im okay with that and makes himself available and best of all whenever we watch something he is never on his phone. Its a boundary I made to him. A relationship needs to 2 people give it their all.

I personally recommend to have one last sit down with your partner. Turn off wifi and leave phones whatever other devices in a different room if thats what it takes.

You need your husband to be present in this marriage and if they are not willing to give that then they need let you know so you can find someone who is actually willing to pay attention to you.

What they is a addiction and if they want actual make this marriage work. They need therapy and heavily dial down the gaming.

Girl…… you need to break this cycle. You have a child and this crazy on/off relationship you have with ex is just not healthy at all and your child is seeing all this. I am saying this as a mother myself. This person you claim to love is not healthy for you. He leads you on and showed he can’t be trusted. He is giving you all these signs not to let him be in your life. Ask yourself why are you letting him get in? Break it off and focus on you and your child.