People should understand that any housing is better than no housing at all, even if all the offices become "luxury" housing, their existence will put downward pressure on all rents since People who xan afford may move there.

I avoid complaining about my SO to my friends and family. What happens is that they end up hearing your side of the story and creating a bad image of your SO which is biased because you (as is normal) tend to downplay all the bad things you do and ignore the good things your SO does. Because they are your friends and family and they love you they start resenting your SO when they should not. Just keep issues between you and your SO or/and a therapist, not other people and for the love of God not social media.