Thank you for your perspective, I’ll have to keep it in mind!

I agree. I think the issue I’m having is this double standard of “we’re not close friends but I still want you to do all this stuff for me”. Like the bachelorette trip, being involved with asking how the planning is going, offering help, and showing up early on the day of the wedding to have a first look with her? Originally, she wanted me to not be a bridesmaid but still spend the whole day getting ready with her and the bridal party.

That’s what I was thinking but I know it’s a stark contrast to what I’m doing for Elizabeth and it’s gonna be awkward because we still run in the same circle. And the other girls expect me to act like one of them but not be one of them. It’s just odd.