davidmacku

davidmacku t1_iye0wh1 wrote

This is a common problem faced by young couples. So you are not toxic. You just wanted to get payback. You have both cheated. Now that there is sufficient payback are both of you willing to work on it?

Trust, loyalty and fidelity are important if you want to move forward. I myself when I was your age went into nuclear revenge mode. It was a drawn out relationship that should have ended way sooner!

It is not about you earning his trust but both of you earning the trust.

What can you do?

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davidmacku t1_iydhw3s wrote

Sometimes we make mistakes and we have to live with the consequences. However, you lied about hanging around with a girl, you cheated with your ex, you only came clean because he knew, you would’ve just lied and kept this truth from him, and who knows how many more times you would do this if you were not caught. There is not a snowball’s chance in hell that you can recover from this. Only idiot guys your own age and younger put up with this shit.

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