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deemsterporn t1_jaeiqfg wrote
Reply to my (20F) roommate (21F) is acting weird towards me after me planning to move out by sailormoonbbyx
Do they not know exactly when you're moving? What does the lease say? Have you given them enough time to find another roomie? Can they afford the rent without you?
deemsterporn t1_jaehf5m wrote
Reply to comment by Boone05 in Can I (f36) ask my friend (f36) to find someone else to watch her dog? Friends for about a year. by [deleted]
That's an easy fix. Get some dog safe bones, chews, stuffed Kong, toy etc so the dog is kept busy. Keep food off the counter. Set down some boundaries in your home. Get a kiddie gate so dog stays in its own area. Lots of solutions for your problem.
If you care for your friend absolutely try to make it work. Sounds like you don't though. If one of my friends made a post like this I'd honestly rather find a new friend. My friends are my chosen family and id be so grateful to help them in their time of need
deemsterporn t1_jaeemvf wrote
Reply to comment by punkrockcockblock in Hurt so bad the first time (f20 m21) by [deleted]
maybe they have a low threshold for pain or are dramatic how are we to know
deemsterporn t1_jadxq0k wrote
Reply to comment by RepresentativeSplit5 in My (31f) boyfriend (29m) has lived with me for a year and has no intentions to start paying rent or bills by RepresentativeSplit5
Seems like you've allowed this to go on too far. You need to stop being a doormat and set a boundary. If he lives with you he pays x amount of rent or utilities or he stops sleeping over more than once a week. If he's not interested in moving in time to break up and move on. Don't waste more of your time.
deemsterporn t1_jadwlyq wrote
Reply to comment by RepresentativeSplit5 in My (31f) boyfriend (29m) has lived with me for a year and has no intentions to start paying rent or bills by RepresentativeSplit5
What is his reason for not contributing?
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deemsterporn t1_jadteys wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [35F] [40M] How can I respond to his message? by [deleted]
From the looks of it he definitely will so good luck w that
deemsterporn t1_jadku9v wrote
This is embarrassing I hope for this mans sake he stays away from you
deemsterporn t1_jadksbs wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [35F] [40M] How can I respond to his message? by [deleted]
Get help
deemsterporn t1_jadkfhw wrote
Reply to What usually happens in the mind of a woman after a close friend tells her he has feelings for her? M30 F28 by [deleted]
Here's the truth- women know. I'm aware every straight male I'm friends with would 100% sleep with me given the chance or opportunity. Some are just more respectful than others.
If she had any type of romantic feelings for you she knows it can and will be reciprocated if she wanted to.
Best case scenario she'll think good for him for being honest maybe now he can get over it and move on to someone who feels the same. Worst case she'll think it's selfish and the friendship will fade.
Any time in the past I've 'confessed' feelings for someone when I'm not positive they feel the same it's been regrettable at best and humiliating at worst.
deemsterporn t1_jaenz1m wrote
Reply to comment by sailormoonbbyx in my (20F) roommate (21F) is acting weird towards me after me planning to move out by sailormoonbbyx
I can't see any reason why they would be upset. I honestly think you're being a bit of a doormat here. They should be finding another roommate, it's unreasonable to pay rent until august if you won't be living there at all. You should absolutely take the furniture you purchased by yourself.