Your dude needs to not be so insecure. If it's ok for him to go to a strip club, it's ok for you to go see Thunder From Down Under or Chippendales. Both of which are a lot tamer than what goes on in most strip joints aimed at males.

Go get a bat or a pipe and kneecap the dudes who jacked you. You won't ever be a good drug dealer if you are known as the guy who gets jacked. Go find some big scary looking MF's to have your back and get your shit back.

I work in the rental car industry, and these work pretty well

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