I don't know about the situation and I don't mean to make you panic. But a lot of the time when someone is talking to someone else in maybe a capacity they shouldn't, they do tend to say "you're my only love and she/he knows about you and they've have a partner". Sometimes it's completely true and innocent. But all the other times, it's not. I don't know why he went behind your back. Also, knowing about each others partners doesn't mean shxt to some people. Some enjoy the right under their partners noses/doing the forbidden. Idk. I hope it's not that. Good luck. But if you get any more red flags don't ignore them and don't waste your time.
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Reply to My (24F) BF (28M) is talking to this girl behind my back. by ResNullius0729
I don't know about the situation and I don't mean to make you panic. But a lot of the time when someone is talking to someone else in maybe a capacity they shouldn't, they do tend to say "you're my only love and she/he knows about you and they've have a partner". Sometimes it's completely true and innocent. But all the other times, it's not. I don't know why he went behind your back. Also, knowing about each others partners doesn't mean shxt to some people. Some enjoy the right under their partners noses/doing the forbidden. Idk. I hope it's not that. Good luck. But if you get any more red flags don't ignore them and don't waste your time.