finnerpeace

finnerpeace t1_itsjcjb wrote

Thinking more about this, I mean, if a kid told me something like this, I sure as hell wouldn't want to have to deal with it. And I'm very ethical, and have done shit pretty regularly like jump in pools to save a kid, yoink an attacking dog off a smaller one, etc. So I'm likely among the more-likely to respond types. Yet still if a kid told me this, I'd be terrified to act, and beyond that terror, I'd simply have no idea what to do. Call the cops and report? But then I'd worry I'd be getting the kid killed...

Anyone know what we actually do if someone does tell us about serious, needs-intervention crime?

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finnerpeace t1_itsi33z wrote

>"Every time I went to the well or into the hills, I didn't think I was coming down. I thought he would kill me because I wouldn't keep my mouth shut."

She was a brave-ass girl. Despite this indeed told people.

You know, with the Dahmer case etc folks always tell about how no one believes black folks. Which I don't doubt. Yet here was a white family in the middle of a white-ass state. And she still wasn't believed. I'm sure some was that she was a kid, and some that she was a girl rather than boy. But I'm thinking what's up is people just don't want to believe these things, either from horror, fear, not wanting to have to deal with it, or the simple surprise-disbelief when we see something absolutely insane and our minds can't process it, especially not quickly. And all these factors become excuses to look the other way.

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finnerpeace t1_itsh51c wrote

A lot of it is that these are relatively transient lifestyles anyway. When they're killed, if there's not a body appearing somewhere, it can look like they just up and left. If there are people who know them well enough to know they didn't take their stuff etc, these are often the types of people who will generally avoid law enforcement: fellow prostitutes, pimps, etc.

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