or jamochas!

if you do a records search, their mortgage was set up (in her name) as a revolving line of credit with him on the deed as a homesteader. if he had “borrowed” against that without telling her, it is possible he could have spent a fair amount of money. maybe he did and she found out about it?

check with a lawyer - if youre a uk citizen, there may not be a lot the bio dad can do if you decide to stay there, especially given your circumstances with housing. i have 2 american citizen friends who have had spouses or former partners take the kid to their own home country and it was a next-to-impossible/herculanean task to try and get kids back. countries were france and italy.

Equinox Sports Club at 4 Avery St has a great pool. I think they will still do day passes but dm me if you want me to send you a guest pass (with a promise that you will not do anything to make me lose guest privileges) 😉

That is crazy high. Boston has a resident exemption and i live in my condo so my taxes for a 2bed/2bath in JP (1150+ sq feet) work out to about $10k annually.