Why on Earth would you be seeing/chasing the same guy as your best friend. Wtf?! No man is worth it hunny. And if he’s seeing you two both, chances are this 40 yo player is seeing others too. Good luck.

Umm, take the hint, move on.

I would be very pissed if i were you at the moment. Part of me blames your husband for entertaining this at work. Maybe im wrong. I work in a male dominated field, I’m very careful when interacting with my coworkers. He needs to straight up cut it out, tell her to only to communicate about work. She friggen asked him to go out on the weekend. Wtf!? How sure are you he’s not interested? I would keep an eye on their chats.

Same. At 36 years old, it boggles my mind that he didn’t know better. 🤦‍♀️

This isn’t real. Common peeps, don’t waste your time.

Girl. Why are you chasing a man who clearly doesn’t want you. You’re in the US and he’s not wanting to see you. Enjoy your time with your friend, go back home, block delete and move on. This is a huge no no. Red flag 🚩, many 🚩🚩🚩. Stop collecting them.

Yea, stop trying.

Do yourself a favour, move on, you’ve already spent 8 years. Don’t waste another 8. Move on, have fun, work on yourself, maybe some therapy (understand why you would knowingly stay being a placeholder for so long) and then find your person. He ain’t your person.

⬆️⬆️⬆️ this!!!! And flowers and ur favourite snacks won’t change the fact that he’s cheater.

Been there, done that, never again.

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Absolutely the right thing. 🙏🙏