I forgive and actually respect him for it. I understand why he went that route.
He did leave two children and two extremely grieving parents behind, who I still catch randomly sobbing for him even 10 years later.
Ultimately it’s your call, and while the grief of the living shouldn’t be a hugely motivating factor, at least maybe consider writing your survived by’s personal letters of goodbye and explanation. It’ll mean so much to them.
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My brother did that.
I forgive and actually respect him for it. I understand why he went that route.
He did leave two children and two extremely grieving parents behind, who I still catch randomly sobbing for him even 10 years later.
Ultimately it’s your call, and while the grief of the living shouldn’t be a hugely motivating factor, at least maybe consider writing your survived by’s personal letters of goodbye and explanation. It’ll mean so much to them.
Take care.