Ben Howard’s I Forget Where We Were is a great album, but She Treats Me Well just doesn’t fit with the rest of the album at all

If Bob slept with your ex, would you want to find out from him or someone else? That’s honestly as simple as this predicament is.

Exactly. He sees them as a part of her that sets her apart from someone else. I understand that OP only sees the bad associated with the scarring, but that doesn’t make them invisible. The simple fact of the matter is that they exist and can be seen by others whether that’s ideal or not. But that doesn’t mean that anybody else means anything negative by seeing them, much like the boyfriend acknowledging their existence wasn’t meant to be negative

She said she made a joke about a mark on her body, so maybe a mole or birthmark? Then he said the scars and she was caught off guard