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houseofreturn t1_jaf3jhu wrote

Not sure about questionable, but I’m terrified for whatever actress they cast as Abby for the next season. The fans of the game absolutely despise the character, so much so that the VOICE ACTOR for her got death threats. So whatever poor woman gets casted to play her in the show is in for a world of hate

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houseofreturn t1_jaf2fbj wrote

Nah that’s just the one character I could think of that would genuinely bother me if they swapped them out for a different gender or race. I thought I’d be bothered when they aged Sarah up in The Last Of Us, but I actually found it to be a lot more appropriate since you can very easily see why Joel would take to caring for Ellie a lot faster since now she’s around the same age his daughter was.

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houseofreturn t1_jaf24s5 wrote

I get that then. It does suck when your partner tells you they’ll do something and don’t stick to it. I think just communicating that it’s hurting your feelings and that you feel like you’re putting in a bit more effort than he is. You’re missing him, and want to talk to him when you can, and it doesn’t feel great that he seemingly isn’t trying to help sooth that with just this little thing every day. Doing the whole “I’ll just text him less” thing is playing games and it’s passive aggressive, and that’s never a good way to treat your partner. Just tell him how it’s hurting you, and hopefully he’ll recognize that he needs to step it up a bit.

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houseofreturn t1_jaew4yr wrote

Dude…you need to chill out. You’re getting snarky and defensive at all the comments, some of which have genuine advice they he may not WANT to call you while he’s working. You’re apparently 25, don’t you have your own life that would be slightly impeded if he were calling you mid-day, every single day? Look if you’re in a long distance situation, I get needing some validation that he’s available for you, but you guys text throughout the day right? I really think you should let this be. Maybe try to compromise with once a week on his lunch break. I’ll give you advice, I live with my boyfriend but our schedules conflict a lot and I don’t get to see him half as much as I want to, and I learned to manage my emotions and be okay with that. I get cute texts and tik toks while he’s on break, he gets cute texts and voicemails from me (he specifically asked I leave him voicemails so he can listen to the sound of my voice without having to interrupt his work flow to take a call). Compromise is key, find a way this works for both of you. You need to do some maturing if you think it can be your way and your way only in a relationship.

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