1. I wasn't asking about our accounts
2. We're not consolidating accounts
3. That's bad advice that leaves people open to financial abuse by their partners

And as for the fun money: 4. My purchases are a mix on online and in person

I understand that you were trying (?) to be helpful, but this is possibly the worst financial advice I've ever recieved.

Thank you!

The app store didn't have any specific info on pricing. A reviewer mentioned $100. Going out on a limb and assuming that's annual. Does that seem like it's in the right ballpark?

Thank you goes pretty far. So does "I appreciate you doing xyz".

At least in the workplace. I have a lot of mutualistic and prosocial relationships. Somehow it's easier to be polite and distant and reciprocate favors in professional situations.

And when people go out of their way to acknowledge I helped or that the work was a pain in the ass, I feel appreciated. Even dumb things like someone bringing in donuts or snacks works on me.