johnny5656765

johnny5656765 t1_j6lv6to wrote

don't listen to this sub about this point

you can't convince them. should most couples buy a house before they actually tie the knot? no. but if they have thought about and considered the risk like adults then do what's best

the concern is that something happens in the relationship and it ends between buying the house and tying the knot...and i'm not quite sure how either of you would be better off if you had gotten married before breaking up. /u/iranisculpable is not saying "put off the purchase until after marriage" which i can understand, they are saying to rush and get married before buying the house which is psychotic and way more impulsive and likely to result in an issue

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