kemotatnew

kemotatnew t1_iufiq0e wrote

Nr 1 is: work hard / improve yourself, be clever, be fun, meet people and find opportunities, get lucky eventually. Its really just that.

Some additional life hacks:

  • Copy your dad or his family. Meet up with them and ask them if they can show you the ropes.

  • Find a mentor. Like in the movies. It works.

  • Decide on a skill you want to be good at (marketing, surgery, art, writing, etc.) And constantly train. Everyday.

  • Find a boyfriend / girlfriend and work hard so that you can make them happy

You were just unlucky so far. Nothing is anyones achievement and nothing is anyones fault. You didnt choose your genes, enviroment, education or family. Neither did your dads family. They just got lucky. It sucks but it is what it is. You can raise your luck if you go out there, talk to people, work hard and look for opportunities.

I was the same as you at 23. Now i have good life. A wife. A good job. A mentor. And Im 26 now. You need to work hard, be charming, clever and also be lucky, but you will never be lucky if you give up now. Its really not complicated. Its just hard to do it everyday. Thats why not everyone is succesful.

On a side-note: Happiness is more important than success. Ask yourself what would make you truly happy, then reach for it.

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