What I meant by not seriously is when I asked her when could I meet him ( I didn’t really want to meet him) and then asked why she doesn’t want me to meet him. She dit defensive and started yelling at me. Yes I got that I should not do “jokes” anymore it was childish from me, but I have reached a limit, her not communicating and always getting defensive. Yes I agree with you , it’s the correct way do to it, it’s been one year since I try to do it , but it’s always the same result. Well I did not want to accuse her of anything but yeah it’s a little bit suspicious for me when she gets so defensive when asked a question that she doesn’t want. I get my error and already told her that I’m sorry for the way I asked but yelling at me and getting so defensive it’s not correct either . I just want to know what’s happening cause everytime there’s something that should be explained she yells at me and ignores me

She made the joke about him being her side piece , I get it’s a joke but then she got defensive and yelled at me. And what I was trying to say is that she always gets defensive when something doesn’t go her way. Yes I acknowledge my fault I won’t be doing it anymore I just don’t know how to act because whatever I do it’s the same answer and reaction

Thank you

Yes I agree it would be childish. But it was not a joke I didn’t explain myself correctly , it was a question, why you don’t want me to meet him, that’s it. The thing is she struggles with communication, over a year I was very patient not pushing her and not forcing when I see that she gets mad. But she ignores every question that she wants , it’s not a way do to thing either , I’m just starting to loose my patience sometimes cause it’s not a easy situation to be in. I didn’t say I dont trust her , I do , but I don’t get why she gets mad especially when you ask her about strange things that happen in our relationship. Hope I explained myself right. I acknowledge that I shouldn’t repeat the question but you cannont ignore every question, it’s been a year like that and it’s the first time I said something back

so if your partner just keeps ignoring your questions there’s nothing wrong with it. I am in the wrong for asking the same question but when over a year you ignore and not answer questions that you don’t want to answer I don’t think it’s correct either

At first it was not a serious question as I didn’t really care to meet him, but when I saw that she got annoyed then I wanted to know why