larlyssa t1_iuk1oco wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:37 PM

Reply to comment by charonthemoon in How do I RSVP to a wedding when half the couple has suddenly pulled back? by [deleted]

I didn’t actually prod at her about it - I just asked how her job was, then 2wks later sent a pic of a gift she gave me in my new apartment when I unpacked it, then a month later asked how one of her hobbies is going. Not sure if that was clear in the post. I never asked why she was MIA.

I really appreciate this advice though, gives me peace of mind.

larlyssa t1_iuiu4h1 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 5:35 PM

Reply to comment by lostarchitect in How do I RSVP to a wedding when half the couple has suddenly pulled back? by [deleted]

Thank you for the comments everyone, I just RSVPed yes.

I moved soon after this started so I haven’t been able to see them in person recently. I guess that’s how I ended up overthinking things. I’m really looking forward to seeing them.

larlyssa t1_iuik31k wrote on October 31, 2022 at 4:28 PM

Reply to comment by omaolligain in How do I RSVP to a wedding when half the couple has suddenly pulled back? by [deleted]

Thank you for your comment. I promise I’m not trying to make it about myself - she’s just the type of person who normally texts back in 2 minutes, so it’s quite out of character. And the one time I’ve seen her frustrated with me, she similarly went radio silent.