ll_akagami_ll
ll_akagami_ll t1_j9zitqq wrote
Maybe I’m wrong. But I sort of get what both of you feel.
I have scars of horrible events. But it’s something that I cannot change without surgery. And it would be purely cosmetic. I cannot imagine “normal” look where these scars are. It’s part of who I am. I feel guilty that someone I’m with would have to have this “defective” partner. And it will never be beautiful to me. But it’s part of who I am.
But when I have a partner who has scars, I realize that loving them for who they are is also loving those scars. Not the events that happened but loving the as a whole. Scars and all. Kinda hypocritical I suppose.
Not sure this helps anyone. But I hope you find clarity. If you have any specific questions I can maybe give my perspective on it from both sides I suppose. But not sure how much help I’d be. You should seek some professionals help.
ll_akagami_ll t1_iy74o0w wrote
He has issues knowing what’s going on around him. If I recall correctly there’s a guy whose job(probably not only job) is to pull him out of the way if he gets too into the game and walks on the field or get him out of the way of a running ref
ll_akagami_ll t1_j9zt7y2 wrote
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