One of my buddies told me a while ago to never accept criticism from someone you wouldn't accept advice from. Ask yourself - does this person know you well enough for their words to actually carry weight? If not, they're likely projecting or have things going on in their own lives. Being more involved with myself and getting to know me better has helped me maintain my security in who I am when people say nasty and untrue things about me.
lordpin3appl3s t1_iujn6h6 wrote
Reply to LPT Request: How to stay unbothered about people hating on you & calling you things you are not by throwaway2727737
One of my buddies told me a while ago to never accept criticism from someone you wouldn't accept advice from. Ask yourself - does this person know you well enough for their words to actually carry weight? If not, they're likely projecting or have things going on in their own lives. Being more involved with myself and getting to know me better has helped me maintain my security in who I am when people say nasty and untrue things about me.