Mutual friend’s birthday night out at a night club. Knew who each other where from sixth form, but hadn’t spent any time together. I paid for cab home (rather than get a lift) to make sure she got home safe. Nothing happened that night, but we met the following weekend, started making out and 28 years later, the rest is history.

MORNING WOOD IS NOT A SIGN OF BEING TURNED ON. You sexually assaulted him as the law stands in the U.K., but as others pointed out you’ve basically raped him and admitted to it. You don’t respect his boundaries an you obviously don’t respect him as a person or a partner. Just in case you missed it NO MEANS NO.