maurtshop
maurtshop t1_it5kdd0 wrote
Reply to comment by awpiiii in TIFU by confessing to my girlfriend that I wasn't actually a virgin by throwway_1768
also mentioning that she still thinks youre not over your last relationship and the two of you having had sex influences that... it's just weird
maurtshop t1_it5k61c wrote
Reply to comment by throwway_1768 in TIFU by confessing to my girlfriend that I wasn't actually a virgin by throwway_1768
yeah no dude that's a really weird assumption to make about a person. if it's that important to her and she didn't establish that out the gate esp when you tried to clear it up then.... idk what to say she just doesn't sound particularly mature or good with communication. you should've been more clear earlier for sure but i understand what an awkward sitch it put you in. i know youre going thru it rn but ngl it sounds like it wouldve imploded one way or another. not entirely your fault
maurtshop t1_it5hz6e wrote
Reply to comment by throwway_1768 in TIFU by confessing to my girlfriend that I wasn't actually a virgin by throwway_1768
i mean, did you explicitly say you were a virgin? did she ask? or did she make that assumption? i get youre going through it but it feels like you're leaving something out here.
maurtshop t1_it5h6ub wrote
it's kinda scummy that you lied (by omission) about it for so long but like, you did allude to it in the past and she just ignored you. and if she ended a year long relationship over this one thing maybe you, uh, didnt fuck up as hard as you think you did. just a thought.
maurtshop t1_it5kns6 wrote
Reply to comment by throwway_1768 in TIFU by confessing to my girlfriend that I wasn't actually a virgin by throwway_1768
that doesn't sound true tho. you guys both messed up, the communication here is just not it. you really really shouldn't be blaming yourself entirely when she didn't clue you into any of this. you're not a horrible person, you just sound like youre in your 20s