I’m sorry your relationship is rocky. It has to be heart wrenching to be in this position.

That said, she does not respect you. Once someone loses respect, it’s game over.

I hope this experience doesn’t have long lasting repercussions for you. Here’s what you need to do.

Break up with your boyfriend and fix yourself. You shouldn’t be in a committed relationship, based on your behavior.

Contact this guy you hooked up with and find out if the video was shared and demand the video be deleted. If he doesn’t, get legal help immediately.

I wish you luck in getting through this situation.