Probably should have added this but we tried an open thing (another female) which he basically set up without me knowing, (she was my really good friend at the time) and suddenly it was like woah okay so there’s 3 of us now? And I hated it, there would be absolutely no way I could be okay with him sleeping with anybody else regardless of gender while we’re not only dating but literal wedding planning.

This ended horrifically and I became a whole other person, it wasn’t nice.

He has autism and blames basically every mistake on the fact that he’s autistic so I never feel like I can actually be mad at him.

Now I’m typing this all out it sounds like a horrible relationship but he’s honestly my soulmate

We live and work together, he literally hasn’t been without me for years now so he hasn’t had the chance to experiment.

And I’d have no problem being married to a bisexual, since I’m one too. That’s not my problem here.

That’s my reasoning behind not being okay with letting him experiment. Because if he prefers sex with men, I’d be heartbroken. If he doesn’t like it, I’d still be heartbroken that it even happened.