mellymellcaramel
mellymellcaramel t1_jaa4gin wrote
Reply to comment by dupattaluella in Trans Girl looking for a hairstylist who is knowledgeable about working with Trans people by Jade_of_the_Sea36
You’re really insufferable.
Good for you that you would go to a barber without checking which one. This person chose not to do that, and that is perfectly OK. I’m not answering your straw man questions about how I know there’s a serial killer.
I didn’t invent the word transphobic, go write a letter to Merrimack Webster and tell them all about your feelings.
mellymellcaramel t1_ja9oq77 wrote
Reply to comment by dupattaluella in Trans Girl looking for a hairstylist who is knowledgeable about working with Trans people by Jade_of_the_Sea36
LIf there’s a hundred men in the room and one of them is a serial killer, I’m going to avoid all 100 men. Again, you can judge people to keep yourself safe, and it’s done subconsciously every day. So, if there’s a hundred barbers in worcester and one of them is transphobic, wouldn’t you want to try and find out which one?
mellymellcaramel t1_ja4fx7m wrote
Reply to comment by dupattaluella in Trans Girl looking for a hairstylist who is knowledgeable about working with Trans people by Jade_of_the_Sea36
Yes, you can absolutely make judgements. That’s what people do. If I see a raccoon acting strange I’m going to make a judgment and assume it has rabies. But it could be possibly sick, but I’m using my life experiences to make a call to keep me safe. And I’ll apply that in all areas of my life. I’m not living in fear, and I’m living fully. It’s okay to be weary of people places or things based on lived experiences.
mellymellcaramel t1_j9phjdw wrote
Reply to comment by dupattaluella in Trans Girl looking for a hairstylist who is knowledgeable about working with Trans people by Jade_of_the_Sea36
For you, but as a woman, I too fear being in spaces with all men. I’ve had bad lived experiences, but you may have not had, that affect my decisions today. Not everybody has had your life or your experiences, and view the world differently.
mellymellcaramel t1_j9p2pdu wrote
Reply to comment by dupattaluella in Trans Girl looking for a hairstylist who is knowledgeable about working with Trans people by Jade_of_the_Sea36
Some people hate trans people for existing. Have you seen the news lately?
mellymellcaramel t1_j9jf59m wrote
Reply to Young couple new to the city by iconicnick3
If you’re in Grafton hill check out Quinsigamond state park. There’s an easy 1 mile loop walking path.
Also crow hill is local to Grafton hill for a near by hike
As for Thai, there’s so many you should try them all. We also have great Vietnamese restaurants here. Check out:
https://www.worcesterma.gov/parks/activities/nature-trails for trails
mellymellcaramel t1_j9jehot wrote
Reply to Birthday by Prudent-Humor8890
Cafe neo
mellymellcaramel OP t1_j8tdf48 wrote
Reply to comment by Sea_Establishment300 in Catalytic converter theft by mellymellcaramel
Yes, it’s tripled since 2020. There’s been a lot of personal reports lately on the ring app and the next door app.
mellymellcaramel OP t1_j8ta0a8 wrote
Reply to comment by Zealousideal_Lie_383 in Catalytic converter theft by mellymellcaramel
Sounds excellent. I’ll tell you what, I’ll give you the $750 and you can even keep the car.
mellymellcaramel OP t1_j8t2zyu wrote
Reply to comment by Horknut1 in Catalytic converter theft by mellymellcaramel
Idk man google it.
mellymellcaramel OP t1_j8t2i46 wrote
Reply to comment by Horknut1 in Catalytic converter theft by mellymellcaramel
It doesn’t fully. Just a deterrent. Figured its better than nothing.
The interwebs state that a spray painted catalytic converter will be harder to sell because the spray paint indicates that stolen.
Submitted by mellymellcaramel t3_113yors in WorcesterMA
mellymellcaramel t1_j8py8v6 wrote
Reply to comment by gotdabsweats in Best Life Hack in Worcester? by CoolAbdul
Yes you may be right I did not double check
mellymellcaramel t1_j8p7704 wrote
Reply to comment by Pvt_Wierzbowski in Best Life Hack in Worcester? by CoolAbdul
Yes, but also, they will cut a tree if it’s on your property but close enough to the sidewalk. Haphazard or not, I’d rather pay for a stump grinder than hiring someone to cut the tree.
mellymellcaramel t1_j8oytqm wrote
Reply to comment by GrandMarquisMark in Best Life Hack in Worcester? by CoolAbdul
This is how you can tell someone grew up on the west side
mellymellcaramel t1_j8o4g09 wrote
Reply to Worcester trash and Recycle everyone! by BigSteveSees
Are you gonna go get it?
mellymellcaramel t1_j8novc7 wrote
Reply to Best Life Hack in Worcester? by CoolAbdul
Wait I have more. The worcester art museum is free the first Saturday of the month
And the worcester historical museum is free for the whole month of February
mellymellcaramel t1_j8nobbd wrote
Reply to Best Life Hack in Worcester? by CoolAbdul
You can get the city to down a tree on your property if it’s close enough to the sidewalk
Watch for limber houses in the summer and keep a dollar bill on ya.
The city is so small there’s never a reason to search for parking at an event. Street parking is free in lots of neighborhoods. Park your car a little closer then call an Uber.
Every Friday there’s a church on Illinois st that has free food for anyone who needs it.
There’s a ton of small hikeable areas in most neighborhoods. Take a walk.
City buses are free right now
mellymellcaramel t1_j8nkiyc wrote
Reply to comment by masshole4life in are the trash guys cutting the lids off the recycling bins? by masshole4life
Worcester is different today than it was 10-20-30 years ago. And things will change in another 10-20-30 years also. I didn’t say it’s SUDDENLY going to start changing, I’ve seen the city take forever.
You’re the one with your head up your ass if you think everywhere stays the same for all time.
Also, the biggest plague on worcester is residents like you, people who shit on the city every chance they get they don’t do anything to change it, or even want to see it change. The worst thing about worcester are the morbid and gloomy attitudes from the residents.
mellymellcaramel t1_j8n5ok7 wrote
Reply to Adult Rec Leagues in Worcester? by Lost-Welder-932
Yes. I think there’s kickball and volleyball but I forget who puts it on
mellymellcaramel t1_j8mt42k wrote
Reply to comment by masshole4life in are the trash guys cutting the lids off the recycling bins? by masshole4life
You say this like I wasn’t aware and haven’t lived in the city my whole life. Wether or not worcester will do it, is not the topic. I’m saying that all of the above, ticketing cars etc etc is what should be done along with rolling bins. There is no other way. And I’m saying it’s an attainable goal.
Will they do it? Probably not for another 10 years. Not sure why you have this “told you so” attitude. Most people here are talking about solutions, and nothing will be done unless we get loud about it.
mellymellcaramel t1_j8le0lk wrote
Reply to comment by masshole4life in are the trash guys cutting the lids off the recycling bins? by masshole4life
Worcester is the second biggest city in New England. If other cities surrounding Boston: Somerville, Cambridge etc can have bins, so can we. Those cities are densely populated and lots of small roads, like worcester, that also have street parking. If other Dr fly populated cities can make it happen then it’s not out of reach here.
mellymellcaramel t1_j7v5s6z wrote
Reply to Valentine’s Date Ideas in Worcester by chrisisgray
There’s an axe throwing place downtown. The worcester public market and green/water street have cute shops and plenty of food to choose from. The worcester historical society is free for the month of February and it’s a really cute place to spend an hour or two before going to get food. Lots of picture opportunities. There’s so many hiking trails to explore, check out the cascades if you want a romantic scene. Have a picnic in the car at Bancroft tower (it’s too cold to eat outside) tower hill botanical garden is really really nice to walk around. And I think there’s a couple of escape room kinda stuff.
mellymellcaramel t1_j7nioac wrote
Reply to What does Worcester need? by AnteaterEastern2811
A dedicated team to pick up litter
mellymellcaramel t1_jaax58l wrote
Reply to comment by dupattaluella in Trans Girl looking for a hairstylist who is knowledgeable about working with Trans people by Jade_of_the_Sea36
TL:DR