Your best bet is Norwalk, or Wilton itself. Stamford you would still be fighting traffic (even if it is a "reverse commute"), but I know of at least one person that lives in Stamford and commutes to Wilton every day for work. Bridgeport would not make sense. I could refer you to a realtor to put you on an MLS search, just to see what's available, if you aren't already working with one.

Overall Stamford is safer than NYC but some areas would feel less safe in comparison to Greenwich or Darien. In Glenbrook I would say that it is generally considered a safe area.

Sportsplex Stamford

Use Evelyn Wilson at the Berkshire Hathaway Greenwich office

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