There is fanatsy and there is and wuite often the 2 of them dont mix. Similar scenarios pop up in relationship advicw all the time and they all gonthe same.way. one oartner had this great idea of sharing oartnwrs, have 3 somes, opeb the relationship etc. They pwp talkmthe other partner. They eventually follow thru withnthw idea and thennthe partner whos great idea it was to begingnwithngets all butt hurt because the whole thing did not go as how they envisioned it would. This is one ofnthose hoghnrisk low reward scenarios.
Another things that makes it even worse is that the other person is a friend. That closeness usuallyntend to make itnworse psychologically. Not sure why but it does. My guess is that when all its said and done he will still havento deal with the friend vs if itnwas a stanger then put of sight out of mind. There is also the issue of not being an equal trade. His friend gets a bj but he doesn't get a bj from thenfriend wife or girlfriend or whatever other trade people see as fair. People tend to feel cheated in scenarios like this. Then there is the issue of whatnof the friend finds the BJ meh! That conversation aint going to go down well.
I tell you what. Grab a dildo and a picture of his friends face. Tape the picture to the wall and go down onnthe dildo in front of your husband and let him think about that for a few days. Feel free to exagerate, maybe saybthe friends name every now and then, how good his cock is etc. If he cant handle that then forget about the real deal.
mrgees100peas t1_iyedslh wrote
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There is fanatsy and there is and wuite often the 2 of them dont mix. Similar scenarios pop up in relationship advicw all the time and they all gonthe same.way. one oartner had this great idea of sharing oartnwrs, have 3 somes, opeb the relationship etc. They pwp talkmthe other partner. They eventually follow thru withnthw idea and thennthe partner whos great idea it was to begingnwithngets all butt hurt because the whole thing did not go as how they envisioned it would. This is one ofnthose hoghnrisk low reward scenarios.
Another things that makes it even worse is that the other person is a friend. That closeness usuallyntend to make itnworse psychologically. Not sure why but it does. My guess is that when all its said and done he will still havento deal with the friend vs if itnwas a stanger then put of sight out of mind. There is also the issue of not being an equal trade. His friend gets a bj but he doesn't get a bj from thenfriend wife or girlfriend or whatever other trade people see as fair. People tend to feel cheated in scenarios like this. Then there is the issue of whatnof the friend finds the BJ meh! That conversation aint going to go down well.
I tell you what. Grab a dildo and a picture of his friends face. Tape the picture to the wall and go down onnthe dildo in front of your husband and let him think about that for a few days. Feel free to exagerate, maybe saybthe friends name every now and then, how good his cock is etc. If he cant handle that then forget about the real deal.
Again, high risk, low reward.