Having read what ebbie45 has written, I still believe she is depressed and what I say about the wife could still hold, but no fucking wonder she is in the state she is in.

Yeah, she thinks you're disgusting for a reason!!

I second this, if a change after the birth, don't give up on her just yet.

She maybe struggling adjusting to motherhood and doing most of it alone, I'm not saying your a bad parent at all. Just some mother's find it really overwhelming and a lot of psychological/ physical things are happening.

Look into her mental health first, she might be burnt out and just can't handle anything more than wake, child, food, sleep?!?!