murderousbudgie

murderousbudgie t1_iuk44n7 wrote

Reply to What are the chances that if a woman reads a lot of romance books, they would have surrealist expectations on a date, the way a guy that’s addicted to porn has surrealist ways to treat a woman? by [deleted]

What sort of "surrealist" expectations have you seen women have on dates? Are they really expecting every man they meet to be a brawny Scot with long hair the way every guy seems to think women orgasm from thirty seconds of jackhammering?

Genuine question, I don't date women.

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murderousbudgie t1_iujj48w wrote

Reply to comment by lostgofl in What do you wish you could tell your younger self before entering an age gap relationship? by lostgofl

> Needless to say, my parents had no leash on me and my adventures. They were very uninvolved.

Another one for the therapist. People like to pejoratively call girls in your situations out for having "daddy issues" (which is unfair) but at base it sounds like you crave the type of support you didn't get from your parents and sexual relationships with older men was an easy way for you to get it.

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murderousbudgie t1_iujg589 wrote

Reply to What do you wish you could tell your younger self before entering an age gap relationship? by lostgofl

I think you need to maybe head to therapy and examine how your own relationship with your physical looks is affecting how you interact with men. Assuming you're being honest and all of this happened after you turned 18, that's a brand new old fart every 1-2 months in order to go through five of them by now. I'm closer in age to your boyfriends than you and, thank God, I caught on pretty early as to what sorts of men pursue women in their teens and twenties when they're 30+ so I didn't ever involve myself with them for more than a night. But I've seen friends throw away their youths, and it's only when they turn the age that their partner was when they first met that the realize the problem.

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