nanny2359 t1_j69rnun wrote

The possibility of bias is the same, emergency or not. Preprint shouldn't be used to make policy. Incentives should be given to peer review important preprints.


nanny2359 t1_j5eqzy2 wrote


Some have foot imprints, some don't - some have headstones for example. If you know the time is coming, look for options.

I dearly wish I had gotten a footprint of my first pet who passed away but they didn't offer it there and I didn't even know it was an option until the passing of my second.


nanny2359 t1_iuawlig wrote

I think you might be overthinking things. Hurt feelings aren't the end of the world.

You gave him all the information he needs to understand the situation & feel better, which is that you were just kidding and you are sorry.

It is now up to him to handle his emotions.

It's not your job to make him feel better - it's also not possible - that's something only he can do. It might take him a little time, and you should respect his need for time, but he'll be okay.

Let me know if there's anything you want me to explain more clearly, I'm glad to do it!


nanny2359 t1_itxin10 wrote

The real problem in your relationship is that you're creeping on his phone when he's in the shower.

It is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS what his fetishes are. He chose to keep his preference to himself and you completely ignored his boundaries and privacy.

What the fuck is wrong with you