My god I’m sorry that happened, what an uncomfortable read.

Don’t get too in your head about ejaculating early. It happens to all men at some point in their life.

Try to be more vocal next time to avoid the surprise she got but in all honesty if she really liked you it wouldn’t be a big deal at all.

Also pro tip, if you’re very excited for a planned date rub one out a few hours before you think you’ll be getting into bed with her.

You’ll last as long as you need to. Good luck champ.