This is not true. The power other people have over us that we are calling as "the way the world is" is the ultimate proof.

The trick is to accept it enough to not let it eat at you but to still want to change it.

The world often is fucked up by choices that are beyond and before my actions. Just saying: stop changing the world" sometimes feels more like suck it up and accept the fucked up nature of our world.

This are very subjective cathegories themselves.