You can talk about it until you're red in the face but you can't make her stop. That's not one of the options.

>How can I make her stop?

You can't. You can't control what other people do, only how you respond to it. She's made it clear that she doesn't agree with you and will probably continue doing this, so it's up to you what you want to do about that.

✔️ fucked around

✔️ found out

It's unfortunate that your kids ended up as collateral damage for your stupid decisions though.

I'd stop going out to eat with them, but that's just me.

Sure, but some people don't mind eating from the same spot. Hell, I've taken a sip from my brother's drink, same with my husband and his sister. It's okay to not be comfortable with that but acting like it's some kind of incestual thing is just weird.

He can believe whatever he wants about drinking alone, he doesn't have to agree with your feelings on it, but he also shouldn't get to tell you what you are or are not "allowed" to do. He's not your owner.

That you're jealous of his sister.

Sure, tell him. I wouldn't expect it to go well but he should probably know this about you.

If you feel it's like kissing your sibling and aren't comfortable with it then you're welcome to not share food with your siblings. But he obviously doesn't feel that way and that's totally fine too.

Total non-issue to me...

Imagine you're shopping at a store and a stranger comes up and hands you £10 and says "this is for you". You'd probably feel kinda sketched out and suspicious of why they're doing that, right? I live in the US but I imagine that might be a similar feeling to getting a tip in a place where tipping isn't a normal thing.

Different people have different intimacy needs. There's nothing wrong with needing sexual intimacy in a romantic relationship as many people do, but there are people who don't consider it a necessity.

Well if you can't use condoms and she doesn't want to try anything else, then doesn't seem like anything is going to change... She should go back to her doctor and tell them about her libido issues though, maybe they can try a different type of BC pill.

Have you tried thinner condoms? Bigger sizes? Abstaining from masturbation to see if that helps?

>(Ik that’s a common excuse but I genuinely can’t lol)

Why not?

She had these plans with her sister a lot longer than she had any plans with you... yeah, she kept canceling them and then changing her mind, but it should have been pretty clear that those plans were the priority. Just let her go have fun with her sister and do something fun with her when she gets back. Sounds like that was the original plan anyway.

You wanna marry a guy who talks shit about you behind your back and compares you to his friend's girlfriends?

>I later got surveillance footage from my neighbor and he had placed the boulder before visiting me!

Your boyfriend? Brought a boulder to your house and put it next to your car just to see you hit it?

Ok...

How exactly are you "admiring" your cousins bf?

Up to you.. Personally at 7 months in, I'd want to have a conversation about it to find out whether he's willing to actually listen to and understand your feelings and to communicate his own. If he's not, I'd consider that a big red flag.

Probably the best case scenario here is that he was actually upset about something else and took it out on you. Because if that's not the case, then he was just being an ass for no reason.

Has he done other rude things like this?

k, have fun I guess

Was he in a hurry to get somewhere...? Why did he feel the need to walk ahead of you? Definitely seems rude to me.

He does enough to fool you into thinking this is a good relationship.