pearlofwine

pearlofwine t1_jacv53u wrote

This is weird. Its normal to have a crush outside of your relationship. It's not healthy to act on it or to emotionally invest in this crush. You made a commitment to be with each other and she's emotionally violating that whilst assuaging her guilt with radical honesty with you.

This is no good in my eyes and reeks of disrespect.

You wanna fuck this guy? Fine go ahead we're done, you just threw away the last 2 years for a casual fling, hope you enjoy it and will be able to handle me completely ignoring your attempts to restart us when it comes crashing down.

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pearlofwine t1_iyf2vht wrote

Jesus man that's rough honestly hard to live that down. They just got a GRAPHIC insight into their daughters kinky life and it is way way too personal.

I would never be able to look them in the eye again. I don't know what to say I just feel terrible for you that's just so awkward and shitty :/

I mean look idk maybe I'm overreacting but ah idk listen to your GF.

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